December 22, 2023

2023 Wrap-Up: In Which I Bend but Don't Break

Hello my beauties!
Welcome to my last post of the year, where I will wrap my 2023 up. Seriously...I'm copying the following part of this intro from last year's post, because...same? down to the number of Review Morsels installments I posted...

"This was a DISASTROUS year, on all counts. Life was a mess; blogging was (consequently) slow and highly irregular. I had to sit it out for a while, and I ended up writing only a VERY small number of full reviews (though I did post ten Review Morsels installments)."

(Please note: I only wrote my first full review of 2023 in May...).

I guess it shouldn't come as a surprise, since my problems are ongoing and nothing really changed since last year, but...it's disheartening. Anyhow, I'm still here, which should probably be regarded as a success, all things considered (but since I would literally have NOTHING GOOD in my life if I didn't blog, probably not...I mean, of course I'll never leave this gig) - hence this post's title. And without further ado, here goes my 2023 recap...

Pt. 1: This Year in Blogging

As of today, I've been blogging for 11 (!!!!!) years and a couple of months πŸ˜ƒ.

This is what happened on Offbeat YA during the year, broken down by number of posts, events I took part in, books I reviewed, authors I interacted with and discussion posts I wrote...plus an off-blog, real-life section!

a) Numbers


This is my 50th post this year. That's 2 posts more than my 2022 count, so yay?...

Only 14 of my 2022 posts were full reviews (they were 13 last year though, so...yay again?), 9 of which were ARC ones (7 last year) - plus I reviewed 1 reissued book made available on NetGalley as "Read Now". Like in 2022, backlist books took a...backseat, which continues to pain me, but again, I couldn't do better. I also wrote 10 mini-review posts (as I said, they were 10 last year too), for a total of 33 books, 12 of which were ARCs (31 books and 8 ARCs last year), which I guess says something...practically half my ARCs for the year didn't get a full review, because I rated them under 3.5 stars or I even DNF them. The books in question are detailed (and linked) in the "Reviews" section below.

So, to sum it up, I wrote 24 review posts (including the minis), for a total of 47 reviews (again, counting both formats) and 21 ARCs. That's 1 review post, 3 reviews and 6 ARCs more than last year. So, in 2023 I did VERY MARGINALLY better than in 2022...Let's "yay" again, I suppose.

Also: I DNF 6 books this year...they were 9 in 2022, so I'll call this a small win too...

b) Events and memes


I'm still involved in Tell Me Something Tuesday (co-hosting, providing questions, participating when I can), but this year I only managed to join the meme 12 times, yikes. I kept doing my Offbeat Offline monthly recaps though, even when I was on hiatus, because I needed to record what was going on (though, to borrow another line from my 2022 recap, "it had better be swept under the rug, or maybe buried in a nuclear site"...).

c) Reviews


These are the books I reviewed this year, broken down by genres/Reading Rooms (all YA except where the contrary is expressly stated):

Supernatural (2): Lost in the Moment and Found by Seanan McGuire | House of Hollow by Krystal Sutherland

Contemporary with a Twist (1): Catfish Rolling by Clara Kumagai (ARC review)

Unwalled (genre-crossing) (1): Girls of Little Hope by Sam Beckbessinger & Dale Halvorsen (ARC review)

Adult (10), in the following genres:
     Afterlife/Urban Fantasy (2):
        The Soul Sector by Michael Karolewsi (reissue review)
        The Prophet's Debt by Michael Karolewsi (ARC review)
     Supernatural (1):
        Mister Magic by Kiersten White
     Sci-Fi (5):
        Myriad by Joshua David Bellin (ARC review)
        The Infinite Miles by Hannah Ferguson (ARC review)
        The Museum of Human History by Rebekah Bergman (ARC review)
        The Never-Ending End of the World by Ann Christy (ARC review) |
        A Second Chance for Yesterday by R.A. Sinn (ARC review)
     Contemporary with a Twist (1):
        The Wonder State by Sara Flannery Murphy (ARC review) 
     Thriller (1):
        Burn the Negative by Josh Winning
     
Also, I posted 10 Review Morsels installments, featuring:
(Please note: some authors recur - *ahem* McGuire a.k.a. Baker a.k.a. Grant - but with different books reviewed of course...).
 
Holy moly...apparently, this was the year of adult sci-fi (they turned out to be all very good/excellent books, too!).

d) Author interactions


REVIEW-WISE

Nothing this year. B.C. Johnson still hasn't released the last installment in his Deadgirl series; Josh Winning had a new book out (Burn the Negative), but his publisher only gave ARCs to selected few...The others were working on books that haven't seen the light of day yet.

BETA-READING

Nothing this year
. For a number of reasons (books still in embryonic stage, etc.). 

e) Discussion posts


I've got nothing πŸ€·‍♀️. As usual, I've been saving my best ideas for TMST (though I would love to revamp my A Reader's Quirks series), except I wasn't able to keep up with it either, despite my contributing to the topic list with a lot of prompts...Maybe when my home life settles a bit I'll manage to make a discussion comeback, but for now...

f) Real life


I'm going to try and keep it short, since if you've been reading my monthly recaps, you already know most of what's happened in this shitty year (*adds it to the list* πŸ˜₯), except for this very month. December will be covered in my next Offbeat Offline installment in a few days, but in the meantime, you get the highlights below. Anyhow, year-wise, here's a recap of the most notable things I went through...

THE BAD:
  • Tending to my bedridden husband. Things are oh-so-slowly getting better for him, but he hasn't left the bed yet (though the day should be near) and I'm at the end of my rope...
  • Eye trouble. I've had two laser surgeries on my left eye retina to treat a couple of small holes caused by vitreous detachment - and I've been still seeing flashes since then, which I'm told is a vitreous traction problem, so I don't even have the means to realise if a new hole is forming anymore (plus I have a developing cataract in the same eye, so my vision is blurry at the moment...).
  • Hair disasters. Despite my new hairdresser's best efforts, I can't seem to make my hair curl the way it used to. After trial and error and multiple (re-perming) incidents, I have reasonably nice hair now, but not up to my old standards *not anymore...they're reverting back to barely wavy, apparently 😭*. Of course, my hair is also stressed at this point, so we'll see what happens when it's time for a new whole perm in May...
  • Condo pipe damage. At least this one wasn't overly expensive, but for a moment I feared the plumbers would have to break my bathroom (along with other people's) to fix it...
  • And the icing on the cake, right before Christmas: Forced loan extension. We should have paid off our twenty-year house loan this month, but for a bunch of economic juncture reasons and the fact that the installments couldn't be raised beyond a certain limit, we still have a huge debt and seven years and three months of payments ahead. Disaster much? 😭😭😭 (Especially with me not working).

THE GOOD:
  • But...right on time, my husband's early retirement plea got accepted (or else we would have faced a 50% cut of his salary, after more than one year on sick leave), and both his pension and the attendance allowance he requested should start rolling in within a month. At least now he can recover in peace, without being forced to go back to work despite his still massive injury (and poor health overall, due to his preexistent disability) in order not to lose the money we NEED to survive...
  • So many ARCs. Seriously, even Seanan McGuire ones this year (though not all of them), and I'm REALLY grateful for each and every book (even the DNF ones), though I've fallen behind with my reading lately - but now that I've lifted some weight from my shoulders (see above), I'll come back with a vengeance! πŸ˜…
  • David Tennant bonanza. First Good Omens 2, then the three Doctor Who specials in which he returned, and finally (on our screens in a few days) the mini series Around the World in 80 Days - which should have aired two Christmases ago, and then in Summer 2022, and then last Christmas...I was furious for the delay, but at least the year will go out with a bang now. Darnedest 2023 kicked my ass with a passion, so David has been a balm for my tortured soul...🧑

Pt. 2: Goals for 2024


Every year, my only goal is to post at least once a week and survive...which regularly proves to be trickier than one might think (both parts). Yet, despite almost four months of hiatus and a whole lot of drama, in 2023 I've managed to write 50 posts, so I guess it's a win? I can do it (sort of)? That's why I'm keeping to my usual tentative plan and setting the same goals for 2024: post weekly, reprise full reviews, and maybe finally reincorporate backlist books into review schedule. It should be feasible, life permitting...(...yeah, I said so last year, too, and look at me now 😬).

Pt. 3: Holidays Hiatus


As usual, I'll be away during the countdown to 2024, though I plan on visiting your blogs/interacting with you on Twitter (are you still on Twitter?) and/or BlueSky (hey! I have invites! just let me know if you need one!). Blog-wise, I'll be back on January 1st with my December recap!

In the end...

...Merry Christmas from the Tenth Doctor πŸ’š

...Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year πŸ˜ƒ
(or Happy Holidays if you don't celebrate)!
See you next year! Take care 😘.

24 comments:

  1. *HUGS* Although you don't post often, I'm glad you do check in at least once per month. I enjoy visiting and catching up, especially since I really don't use social media at all. I hope you have a good Christmas and may 2024 be a better year!

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    1. I feel like such a failure LOL. I do appreciate your taking the time to check on me, and I hope to be able to reciprocate more often when things start to get on track. Have a happy Christmas and a great year yourself!

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  2. I've been trying to catch up visiting blogs and it seems many of us haven't been posting much - or at all - this past year. It's kind of sad because the circle keeps getting so much smaller.

    May 2024 be Wunderpus photogenicus (I'm trying something new lol)

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    1. Ha! I had to look that one up. I thought it was a plant, if not a vegetable πŸ˜‚.

      I'm not planning on leaving anytime soon...as I said, my blogging gig is pretty much the only thing in my life that doesn't suck (also thanks to the lovely friends I get to interact with).

      Happy Christmas and an Axolotl new year! πŸ˜‚

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  3. 2023 was a rough year. One thing you DID accomplish lol is convince me to read the Wayward Children series. I haven't started them yet (I mean, I'm reading NOTHING ATM) but 2024 will be a year I read them!

    I was told I have cataracts too but they're very early stages. I was like... cataracts? Am I old????

    Also someone at a holiday party told me to start with the 9th Doctor? Do you concur?

    Sorry to hear about the bad stuff but happy about the good stuff. :) Hope you have a merry christmas!

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    1. "One thing you DID accomplish lol is convince me to read the Wayward Children series."
      For real? I feel definitely accomplished then! πŸ˜‚ πŸ’š

      I suppose we are old...😭

      About DW - I think you missed my reply to your comment on my previous post, so here goes:
      "Well, yeah, he's the first of the modern Doctors, so of course it would be the perfect starting point. Personally, I never warmed to him that much (and be warned - his first episode was quite silly, though in an endearing way), though he had his moments...but then Tennant came along...and I was hooked 😍 πŸ˜‚."
      Also - Matt Smith episodes can be confusing if seen out of order. There are a lot of time paradoxes and a few causal loops, but that's the very reason why I love them so much!

      Thank you, and happy holidays to you as well!

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    2. YES. They are on my short list to read SOON.

      That's good to know. Thanks! Yes the person I was talking to was shocked I'd never seen Dr Who, and said to start with Eccleston, but was also very fond of Tennant and Smith. So... I'll start w/ Ecclestn I guess and go from there? I just saw Smith in Fire and Blood and had never seen him in much before that, but he was such a devious rogue in that...

      Merry christmas!!!!!

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    3. Yay!

      LOL, indeed it's shocking that a sci-fi fan has never seen DW! πŸ˜‰

      I know Matt is in the GOT prequel, but I've never watched it, since high fantasy isn't my thing. His version of the Doctor is very warm and quirky, so you're in for a surprise!

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    4. Oh he was something in that :)

      Thanks, I did miss the earlier comment

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  4. I'm impressed you read so many books and reviewed them. I think it's a yay simply for doing both.

    When you summed up your year like that, it does seem a lot to handle but we, you, all of us, are resilient creatures so we can all get through it. Or just complain more. I think letting your thoughts out in a blog post helps a little.

    I hope happier things will come your way. Have a lovely December.

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    1. "I'm impressed you read so many books and reviewed them. I think it's a yay simply for doing both."
      Thank you! That does make me feel a little better.

      Yep...having a blog helps, especially when one doesn't have (lots of) people to vent out to in real life...

      Thank you! Have a merry Christmas and a happy 2024!

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  5. 11 years is so good! Sorry to hear that things are still not great but I am hoping that this coming year is much better for you.

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    1. You've been blogging for a lot longer than me...but yeah...11 years are a thing LOL.

      Thank you, and I hope you'll have a quiet Christmas (without apartment hell stuff πŸ˜‰) and a happy 2024!

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    2. Thank you. I hope you have a nice Christmas too.

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  6. It's been such a challenging year for you, and I really hope things look up in 2024. It seems if your husband can just recover, that would be a huge burden off your shouldersπŸ˜₯ I hope you have a good holiday, at least, and we'll see you next year!

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    1. "It seems if your husband can just recover, that would be a huge burden off your shouldersπŸ˜₯"
      Oh, it would...πŸ˜“

      Thank you so much, and I wish you the same!

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  7. I am happy to see some good things for this past year, but I hope to see more good than bad next year. That's a goal, right? Best wishes to your husband on his recovery, too.

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    1. The good things aren't even near to level up the bad ones...so I think it's definitely time for the universe to deal me a better deck 😬.Thank you, and have a cozy Christmas and a splendid new year!

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  8. Oh, Roberta! I'm so sorry this year has been so awful. I'm glad to hear your husband's early retirement has been approved and that he's near to getting out of bed. Sending you and him good thoughts and vibes. Despite the suckiness that has been 2023 for you, I hope you're able to enjoy the holidays.

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    1. Yep...we should be nearing the end of the tunnel now, or at least heading to a better place (though there's always something, isn't there?). Thank you so much, and I hope the same for you!

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  9. Roberta, I'm sending all my love and good vibes to you and your husband in 2024! 2023 was pretty rough here too, as my husband had an unexpected stint in the ICU followed by a months long leave from work. It wasn't easy, physically, emotionally, or financially, but we finally came through on the other side. I hope you both are able to reach that point in the new year!

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    1. That sounds even rougher than what we went through in a way, since my husband's stipend has been going through for all this time (he was a switchboard operator for the local hospital, so he worked in the public sector), though there had been a 10% cut in the latest months. I hope the two of you finally put the worst behind you at last! Happy new year, and thank you!

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  10. Happy New Year, Roberta! 6 DNF's in a whole year sounds perfectly successful. Glad you got your Tennant fix this holiday as well!

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    1. Happy new year! Well, I didn't read a ton of books, but 6 out of 47 is reasonable πŸ™‚. And ah, David saved my life!

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